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SmartMoney Magazine by Renee DeFranco (Author Archive)

10 Things Wedding Planners Won't Tell You

Below is an excerpt from the book "1,001 Things They Won't Tell You," which was published in May 2009 and highlights popular columns from SmartMoney's long-running "10 Things" feature.


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1. “Something old, something new—and everything over the top.”

In recent decades, a rise in what couples expect to spend on their wedding has boosted the wedding biz to a $120 billion industry, according to David Wood, president of the Association of Bridal Consultants. Today’s nuptials, costing $27,000 on average, tend to be “ grander,” Wood says. And the grander the affair, the more a couple needs help putting it together. Enter the wedding planner, a profession that emerged in the 1950s. Once catering to the wealthy elite, wedding planners have gone mainstream in recent decades, doubling their numbers over the past three years to 20,000. Some 270,000 couples hired planners in 2006, up from 200,000 in 2003. Today, according to industry estimates, roughly 20 to 30 percent of weddings involve the use of a wedding planner.

What accounts for the boom? For one thing, people are waiting longer to marry and are often too busy pursuing careers to plan their big day, says Shane McMurray, founder of research firm The Wedding Report. For another, more couples expect to re-create the lavish affairs seen in movies and tabloids, says Kathleen Murray, deputy editor of the bridal site The Knot.

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HarpAngel

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As a harpist who has played weddings in three states and the District of Columbia, and who has attended many weddings, I would like to make a few comments. The wedding industry in the USA is entirely out of hand. A wedding is one day in a couple's life; a marriage is until "death due us part" and should not be entered into lightly. What I have seen too much of over the years are weddings that are simply so extravagant that all meaning is lost. Let's return to simplicity and fun, please, and make these gatherings meaningful, a time for both families to meet, to reconnect with extended family and friends, and to ask for God's blessing on the couple in this uncertain and constantly changing world.
Over the years I have seen wonderful small weddings and medium-sized ones that were meaningful: the couple from Texas who invited everybody to go square-dancing at the reception and the church that provided the potluck for them, and wonderful music; the couple who got married simply in a lar...(Read more of this comment)
Posted by: michelefoxgott
What the article screams to me is not to count on just the church or location coordinator to be dedicated fully to you. Contract a professional who is dedicated to you from day one.

I have been an event planner for over 15 years and Yes! it's true, today's weddings are so expensive and nothing breaks my heart more than when a bride brings in a picture from a magazine which she hopes to recreate for herself. However, her budget is $20,000.00 for 200 guests and the picture has chairs that I know cost $12.00 each with an $8.00 chair cover.

Gorgeous weddings can be produced on any budget. The trick is hiring a professional who knows where to find the cost effective alternatives to the pictures. Most importantly, tell your coordinator your honest budget. We create an excel spreadsheet by creating an initial budget and tracking how much she is spending on the way keeping her on target.

Michele Fox Gott
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Burbank, CA
Posted by: PremiumIV
There is no doubt that Robbi Ernst of June Wedding is a leader in the wedding industry and very much respected for his contributions. He offers valuable insight into today?s wedding market especially destination weddings. Brides should consult his association vendor members list before choosing a destination wedding planner especially for the Caribbean . Choose an island like St Barthelemy ( St Barts ) where the cookie cutter approach of the large discount resorts of other islands does NOT take place.
The article fails to mention another very important association : Association of Wedding Professionals International, Richard Markel. Both these associations have a code of ethics that vendors must live by in order to stay as members. Consulting these associations provides today?s bride with confidence and security in knowing that they can hire a full service professional that will be there for them on their special day.
Posted by: troyguy
Handy man guys and gals are good some are bad myself if i cant't fix it i tell them be honest. I have been in the property management field for the past 20 years i do alot of after hours and weekend side jobs sometimes i fix what some one elase messed up . So be honest and clean up after your self that is the 2 most important things in any job you do .
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